Popular questions posed by some of our clients, concerning
marriage
and Thai wives.
Question 1:
Why
do I need to use an introduction agency to help to find a Thai wife?
If you are one of the growing band of disillusioned genuine single
Western gentlemen, who is "sick to the back teeth" with the new
breed of twenty-first century woman. If you are disillusioned with the
kind of de-feminised, over sized, self-centred, mercenary minded lady,
available on the Western singles scene, who is only out for what she can
get. Perhaps you are not "Gods gift to women", feel that you are
past your sell by date, or; are a workaholic, with no time to socialise,
or when you do experience the singles scene, find it very shallow, and
are completely disillusioned with it all. Thai Professional Introduction
Services are for you!
Any man who has visited Thailand, will tell you how easy it is to meet
the WRONG type of Thai lady! And how it is virtually impossible, to
safely meet a decent Thai lady.
The ONLY way to successfully meet a decent honourable marriage minded
Thai lady is via a professional, ethical, reputable, experienced, Thai
Government registered introduction agency such as T.P.I Ltd (Our Bangkok
Company).
Question 2:
What is so special about
the Asian mail order bride service provided by Thai Professional Introductions and why should I
choose your agency?
At Thai Professional, we introduce gentlemen to the kind of decent,
marriage minded Thai ladies, who they could only ever realistically be
able to meet, if they were a long standing respected friend of the girls
family. - An impossible unrealistic scenario.
Our non traditional Asian mail order bride service is FULLY comprehensive. We are there for you at EVERY
stage of the process; from initial introduction, through to engagement
and/or marriage, visa preparation, visa interview and after care
service, whilst the Thai lady settles in her new home country.
With Thai professional you DEAL DIRECT. We have NO middlemen. The buck
stops with us. We have 100% control over ALL operations.
We do provide a complete comprehensive service; from first contact, to
ultimate marriage and beyond. We arrange flights, hotels wedding
ceremonies etc. at favourable rates.
WE WILL NOT LET YOU DOWN
Question 3:
What are a gentleman's marriage requirements, to qualify for a
Thai Wife?
He must be single, divorced or widowed.
He must be in employment, self-employed, or of independent means.
He must be a homeowner, or have a renewable tenancy agreement.
He must have had a bank or building society account for at least 6 months.
He must have a valid passport, which does not expire for at least 6 months after his
departure date from Thailand.
He must be prepared to travel to Bangkok. Basically
gentlemen have to be able to demonstrate to their embassy/consulate, that upon arrival in
their chosen country of residence, their Thai wives/fiancés will not be a burden upon
the state, by having to resort to public funds.
It is possible by mutual consent, for a gentlemen awaiting
his divorce, to become "engaged" to the Thai lady of their choice. The
lady invariably will agree to wait, until the gentlemans' divorce
certificate is forthcoming.
Question 4 :
What kind of men use your
service?
Genuine men aged 25-80+ from ALL walks of life and ALL
physical and socialstatuses. We have successfully
found wives for Teachers, Doctors, Lawyers,
Company Directors, Military Personnel, Computer Technicians, Bus/Truck
drivers, Policemen, Firemen, Self Employed, Retired People, Etc. We havefound wives for a US judge, an English Lord, a council road sweeper,
a manin a wheelchair, a man with one leg, men
with missing hands, a deaf man, aman of 86, even
a blind man!
Question 5:
Can the girls speak English?
Most have a very basic knowledge. A few can speak
English reasonably well. However, even if your chosen lady knows very little English, she
will have the will and the desire to improve her English very quickly. When I met my Thai
wife she could not speak a word of English! But it did not stop me communicating with her,
and falling madly in love with her!
Question 6:
If my chosen potential Thai wife
cannot speak much English can you help?
Ofcourse we can!
We can assist her in obtaining English tuition, in one of the many language schools
situated in Bangkok.
Question 7:
How
much does your service cost?
Agency fees are £1950 (Valid for 12 months -Includes 2-year aftercare service. Free
visa advice service etc.)
Full details are to be
found on our Thai
marriage costs page. (Please see currency converter on costs
page, for Worldwide clients)
Question 8:
How
long should I plan to stay in Thailand?
Clients usually stay in Thailand for about 2 weeks. Some
only visit for a few days, (if they are in Bangkok on business anyway), returning later to
consolidate their plans. However those who visit for 2 weeks, invariably have plenty of
time to forge a meaningful long-term commitment. Quite high percentages actually marry in
Bangkok. Whist others take the slower more cautious route of engagement in Thailand,
sending their chosen lady to their home country, on a fiancé visa.
Question 9:
How much
will my accommodation cost?
Hotel accommodation close to our office costs from
as little as £10 per night, including American breakfast! A 3 star hotel
close to our office, about £25. A 5 star hotel approximately £90 per
night.
Please note, that whilst we are in fact; also registered as travel
agents, we do NOT deal with the general public, this ensures that we can
generally assist clients with their travel and accommodation
arrangements.
Question 10:What is your visa
success rate?
100%!
Question 11:
What
happens if I am unsuccessful?
It really does not happen! If a gentleman is unable to
make his mind up due to too much choice, or lack of time; he is eligible to return to our
Bangkok office at a future date convenient to himself, within a 12 month period. He will
then be provided with further selections of ladies, if required; until he has found his
ideal partner; with nothing more to pay.
PLEASE NOTE. THE ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
12 AND 13 ARE NOT OUR PERSONAL OPINION, BUT THOSE EXPRESSED BY THE HUNDREDS
OF LADIES WHO HAVE ENROLLED ON OUR BOOKS OVER THE LAST FEW YEARS. WE ARE NOT
IMPLYING THAT ALL THAI MEN ARE BAD!!!
Question 12:
Why
do these beautiful Thai ladies want to leave Thailand, to travel thousands of miles to a
different culture and climate?
They are just looking for what they cannot easily find
in their own country - a good, sincere, kind hearted gentleman, who they can love and care
for, who will do the same for them. There are many more women than men in Thailand, and a
great shortage of eligible men. Thailand is a very male orientated society. There is a
strong bias towards men in the workplace, and elsewhere. Ladies are considered over
the hill at 28 years old! Many Thai men tend to be very promiscuous; often having
more than one wife, and several occasional girlfriends. They are generally not looking for
a long-term stable relationship. Not good husband material!
PLEASE NOTE. We are NOT saying that ALL Thai men are bad!! There are
good and bad in EVERY race.
Thai women are not fully equal to their male counterparts. They are
governed by a variety of legal, religious, and cultural
restrictions.
Traditionally, women are expected to remain sexually inactive until
marriage. Abortion is only available in cases of rape, or serious health
problems. Respectable Thai ladies do not go out on the town alone, and
those that do are assumed to be prostitutes.
Thai men, on the other hand, can, as we have said before, be very
promiscuous, before and after marriage. It is not unusual for the Thai man
to have an unofficial second wife, and a number of girlfriends.
In most cases the married Thai lady is powerless to do anything about
this. If she complains, he will simply divorce her, causing her family
great shame, and the lady great financial hardship.
She will have no state benefit to fall back upon. There is no such thing
in Thailand. The onus is upon her family for support.
Question 13: Why
do these ladies want to marry a Western man?
Divorce in Thailand is quick, easy and cheap. Newly divorced Thai women
have little opportunity or desire to remarry Thai men. The old analogy of a Thai marriage
where the lady is likened to the back legs of an elephant, and as such is the stabilising
directing influence, is a good analogy. Indeed women are often as important as men, in the
economic contribution to the household, but their role is staying in the background behind
their men, supporting them.
Many Thai ladies are rebelling against this intolerable treatment by their unfaithful
husbands. Many now in fact initiate divorce proceedings, accepting the hardship, and
repercussions of their actions. Other young unmarried Thai ladies see this scenario all
too often, and have no desire to follow this unsavoury route of marriage, followed by
divorce. They are now looking to Western men to provide the stable monogamous relationship
which they seek.
They consider that Western men possess important qualities, which are sadly lacking in
many Thai men. That they are loving, caring , faithful, and will provide the long term security
which they crave.
Question 14:
Do
these ladies want to leave Thailand to escape Poverty and hardship?
No, this is not their prime directive. Thailand has a robust economy,
with a shortage of labour in certain fields of employment. In point of fact, the ladies on
our books are more than happy to consider a good Western man who wants to live in Thailand
with them.
We do not deal in economic migrants!
Question 15:
Where
do the ladies come from?
Our ladies come from most walks of life, and from all over Thailand.
They all live and work in Bangkok, as that is where all the work is to be found. They
occasionally return to the country for public holidays.
Question 16:
What
kind of ladies are on your books?
Decent single gainfully employed marriage minded ladies, from all walks
of life. We have many office workers, teachers, many university graduates, with good jobs.
Also housekeepers, hairdressers etc
Question 17:
What
is an acceptable age difference?
This is up to each individual lady. However Thai ladies generally prefer
a man who is a good few years older than her.
Most ladies like to meet a man face to face, (rather than stating categorically an age
range), before making any hard and fast decisions.
Question 18:
What happens when I arrive in Bangkok?
You are met at Bangkok International
airport, by our office manager, and escorted back by complimentary taxi, to your chosen
accommodation in Bangkok.
Question 19:
What happens next?
If you wish, you can rest at your hotel to recover from
your long flight. Alternatively, you can hit the ground running, and commence
introductions the same day. Generally however, clients get themselves a good nights
rest, and begin their selection procedure the following morning, by which time they are
fully rested and raring to go! Indeed, many clients often make provisional selections,
prior to their arrival in Bangkok, and have a couple of dates pre-booked.
Question 20:
How many ladies can I meet?
As many as you like! We will keep introducing you to
ladies, until you say stop!
Question 21:
Do you provide any introductions to Thai ladies living in
the UK?
No.
Question 22:
Why not?
Because any
organisation dealing in this market, is invariably in fact usually
dealing with less than genuine ladies with a chequered history, who have
entered the UK on a wife or fiancée visa having met and "hooked" an
unwitting man, usually in dubious circumstances, in a Thailand bar,
hotel,or place of entertainment, chat line, etc., These are almost in
variably,marriages of convenience. The ladies bide their time, wait
until they have achieved their goal, of securing unlimited leave to
remain in the country then dump him; disappear and look for a richer
man!
This has NEVER occurred with any of the ladies on our books.
Question 23:
Do you have any links to any other organisations working
in this field?
Absolutely not. With us you deal direct.
We have NO middlemen.
Question 24:
What about other costs? Flights, accommodation etc.
All information can be found on our
Thai marriage cost
page, and our free colour brochure.
Question 25:
Can
you help with these arrangements?
As stated above, Yes we can! We are in
fact also registered as travel agents. We do NOT deal with the general
public however, we are only registered as travel agents so that we can
provide a better level of service to our clients using our service. We can
also help you make big savings on hotel accommodation, pleasure trips,
etc. See cost of Thai
lady marriage page.
Question 26:
Can I visit your Bangkok
office to "take a look" before deciding whether I wish to use your
service or not?
We do NOT accept casual callers at our Bangkok office.
There are certainly no sinister or underhand reasons for this approach.
The simple fact is, that every lady, and every Western man visiting our
office, has a committed intent to finding a life partner. We are ALWAYS
very
busy in our office with
clients using our full service, and the arrival of occasional casual
visitors, would, we KNOW be the "thin edge of the wedge" of
what, by future word of mouth would inevitably lead to a virtual
"peep show" for Western casual visitors. This would cause severe
embarrassment to the ladies on our books, and our Bangkok staff alike.
Please note. We are NOT a casual dating agency, and as such do not
offer an occasional dating service. We cater exclusively for marriage
minded gentlemen. Clients signing up, use our FULL service. Which is valid
for 12 months. This is done out of respect to the decent ladies on
our books, who are only wishing to meet sincere gentlemen with honourable
intentions. As I am sure you are.
Question 27:
Can
I write to ladies before I visit your Bangkok office?
In theory, this is a great idea. However in practice it is not so. The
reasons are quite simple.
Ladies take time off work to meet gentlemen using our service in our
Bangkok office. In theory they would have to do the same to receive and
send replies to interested men who are not in Bangkok.
It really is however, a case of " A bird in the hand is worth two
in the bush"
As we have so many gentleman clients using our service, the ladies
naturally wish to use their time off as productively as possible. They are
not so keen therefore, to use this time to receive letters from gentleman
who, in their minds, may never come to Bangkok at all, or at best,
probably arrive after they have become engaged to another man!
We have been in business for several years now; and experience tells us
that the ladies are looking to meet a potential partner "face to
face" NOW, not at a later date.
These ladies are NOT looking for penpals.
POPULAR MISCONCEIVED SCENARIOS RE MEETING THAI LADIES.
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(a)" Attempting to meet a suitable decent Thai lady in a social
situation, who
is not meeting men every week as part of her living, and about whom it is
possible to discover a reliable verifiable history "
Answer: It is virtually impossible; to meet a decent single marriage-
minded
Thai lady in a social situation in Thailand, as these ladies would not be
available to meet.
Yes; there are hundreds of Thai ladies to be met in social situations in
Thailand, however always remember, that when you go home, they have to
earn
their keep, from somebody else!! To meet a decent lady, you need to use a
reputable agency, like Thai Professional, which has investigated the
background
and social status of the lady.
(b)"Attempting to find a lady that will stay faithful to you in your
absence?".
Answer: Once "engaged" to a lady who is on the books of a
reputable agency like
Thai Professional, that lady is immediately removed from the books. She
will
faithfully wait for you until her visa to come to your country has been
secured.
(c)"Attempting to keep the relationship alive from several thousand
miles away,
without help and assistance in communication, cultural differences,
customs and
language"
Answer: A reputable agency is there for you and your lady EVERY step of
the
way, to prevent the relationship falling apart for any of the given
reasons.
(d)"Attempting to secure assistance with all aspects of visa and
cultural
preparation, for the lady's entry to her new country of residence"
Answer: You need to use a reputable registered marriage agency, which has
successfully prepared and secured hundreds of visas, for Thai ladies to
enter
Western countries World wide.
Question 29:
What
makes your company and its service stand out from the crowd?
Established in 1997 by Lawrence &
Thapanee Lynch, Thai Professional Introductions ALWAYS live up to their
hard earned and well deserved reputation; of providing the most
professional ethical sensitive caring service that has EVER been
available to sincere Western men. We are "straight talkers" providing a
genuine straight transparent service. Please view the 93 minute TV
interview with Lawrence Lynch, (see Google video below) where he covers
ALL aspects of the service, and lays to rest the numerous misconceptions
and negative thoughts which are inevitably harboured in the minds of
certain cynical segments of society; and you will see for yourself!
Thai
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