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Popular questions posed by some of our clients, concerning marriage

and Thai wives.

Question 1: Why do I need to use an introduction agency to help to find a Thai wife?
If you are one of the growing band of disillusioned genuine single Western gentlemen, who is "sick to the back teeth" with the new breed of twenty-first century woman. If you are disillusioned with the kind of de-feminised, over sized, self-centred, mercenary minded lady, available on the Western singles scene, who is only out for what she can get. Perhaps you are not "Gods gift to women", feel that you are past your sell by date, or; are a workaholic, with no time to socialise, or when you do experience the singles scene, find it very shallow, and are completely disillusioned with it all. Thai Professional Introduction Services are for you!
Any man who has visited Thailand, will tell you how easy it is to meet the WRONG type of Thai lady!  And how it is virtually impossible, to safely meet a decent Thai lady.

The ONLY way to successfully meet a decent honourable marriage minded Thai lady is via a professional, ethical, reputable, experienced, Thai Government registered introduction agency such as T.P.I Ltd (Our Bangkok Company).

Question 2: What is so special about the Asian mail order bride service provided by Thai Professional Introductions and why should I choose your agency?
At Thai Professional, we introduce gentlemen to the kind of decent, marriage minded Thai ladies, who they could only ever realistically be able to meet, if they were a long standing respected friend of the girls family. - An impossible unrealistic scenario.
Our non traditional Asian mail order bride service is FULLY comprehensive. We are there for you at EVERY stage of the process; from initial introduction, through to engagement and/or marriage, visa preparation, visa interview and after care service, whilst the Thai lady settles in her new home country.
With Thai professional you DEAL DIRECT. We have NO middlemen. The buck stops with us. We have 100% control over ALL operations.
We do provide a complete comprehensive service; from first contact, to ultimate marriage and beyond. We arrange flights, hotels wedding ceremonies etc. at favourable rates.

WE WILL NOT LET YOU DOWN

Question 3: What are a gentleman's marriage requirements, to qualify for a Thai Wife?

  1. He must be single, divorced or widowed.
  2. He must be in employment, self-employed, or of independent means.
  3. He must be a homeowner, or have a renewable tenancy agreement.
  4. He must have had a bank or building society account for at least 6 months.
  5. He must have a valid passport, which does not expire for at least 6 months after his departure date from Thailand.
  6. He must be prepared to travel to Bangkok. Basically gentlemen have to be able to demonstrate to their embassy/consulate, that upon arrival in their chosen country of residence, their Thai wives/fiancés will not be a burden upon the state, by having to resort to public funds.

It is possible by mutual consent, for a gentlemen awaiting his divorce, to become "engaged" to the Thai lady of their choice. The lady invariably will agree to wait, until the gentlemans' divorce certificate is forthcoming.

Question 4 : What kind of men use your service?

Genuine men aged 25-80+ from ALL walks of life and ALL physical and social statuses. We have successfully found wives for Teachers, Doctors, Lawyers, Company Directors, Military Personnel, Computer Technicians, Bus/Truck
drivers, Policemen, Firemen, Self Employed, Retired People, Etc. We have found wives for a US judge, an English Lord, a council road sweeper, a man in a wheelchair, a man with one leg, men with missing hands, a deaf man, a man of 86, even a blind man!

Question 5: Can the girls speak English?

Most have a very basic knowledge. A few can speak English reasonably well. However, even if your chosen lady knows very little English, she will have the will and the desire to improve her English very quickly. When I met my Thai wife she could not speak a word of English! But it did not stop me communicating with her, and falling madly in love with her!

Question 6: If my chosen potential Thai wife cannot speak much English can you help?

Of course we can!
We can assist her in obtaining English tuition, in one of the many language schools situated in Bangkok.

Question 7: How much does your service cost?

        Agency fees are £1950 (Valid for 12 months -Includes 2-year aftercare service. Free visa advice service etc.)        Full details are to be found on our Thai marriage costs page. (Please see currency converter on costs page,    for Worldwide clients)

Question 8: How long should I plan to stay in Thailand?

Clients usually stay in Thailand for about 2 weeks. Some only visit for a few days, (if they are in Bangkok on business anyway), returning later to consolidate their plans. However those who visit for 2 weeks, invariably have plenty of time to forge a meaningful long-term commitment. Quite high percentages actually marry in Bangkok. Whist others take the slower more cautious route of engagement in Thailand, sending their chosen lady to their home country, on a fiancé visa.

Question 9: How much will my accommodation cost?

Hotel accommodation close to our office costs from as little as £10 per night, including American breakfast! A 3 star hotel close to our office, about £25. A 5 star hotel approximately £90 per night.

Please note, that whilst we are in fact; also registered as travel agents, we do NOT deal with the general public, this ensures that we can generally assist clients with their travel and accommodation arrangements.

 

Question 10: What is your visa success rate?

100%!

Question 11: What happens if I am unsuccessful?

It really does not happen! If a gentleman is unable to make his mind up due to too much choice, or lack of time; he is eligible to return to our Bangkok office at a future date convenient to himself, within a 12 month period. He will then be provided with further selections of ladies, if required; until he has found his ideal partner; with nothing more to pay.

PLEASE NOTE. THE ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS 12 AND 13 ARE NOT OUR PERSONAL OPINION, BUT THOSE EXPRESSED BY THE HUNDREDS OF LADIES WHO HAVE ENROLLED ON OUR BOOKS OVER THE LAST FEW YEARS. WE ARE NOT IMPLYING THAT ALL THAI MEN ARE BAD!!!

Question 12: Why do these beautiful Thai ladies want to leave Thailand, to travel thousands of miles to a different culture and climate?

They are just looking for what they cannot easily find in their own country - a good, sincere, kind hearted gentleman, who they can love and care for, who will do the same for them. There are many more women than men in Thailand, and a great shortage of eligible men. Thailand is a very male orientated society. There is a strong bias towards men in the workplace, and elsewhere. Ladies are considered “over the hill” at 28 years old! Many Thai men tend to be very promiscuous; often having more than one wife, and several occasional girlfriends. They are generally not looking for a long-term stable relationship. Not good husband material!

PLEASE NOTE. We are NOT saying that ALL Thai men are bad!! There are good and bad in EVERY race.

Thai women are not fully equal to their male counterparts. They are governed by a variety of legal, religious, and cultural restrictions. 

Traditionally, women are expected to remain sexually inactive until marriage. Abortion is only available in cases of rape, or serious health problems. Respectable Thai ladies do not go out on the town alone, and
those that do are assumed to be prostitutes.

Thai men, on the other hand, can, as we have said before, be very promiscuous, before and after marriage. It is not unusual for the Thai man to have an unofficial second wife, and a number of girlfriends.

In most cases the married Thai lady is powerless to do anything about this. If she complains, he will simply divorce her, causing her family great shame, and the lady great financial hardship.

She will have no state benefit to fall back upon. There is no such thing in Thailand. The onus is upon her family for support.

Question 13: Why do these ladies want to marry a Western man?

Divorce in Thailand is quick, easy and cheap. Newly divorced Thai women have little opportunity or desire to remarry Thai men. The old analogy of a Thai marriage where the lady is likened to the back legs of an elephant, and as such is the stabilising directing influence, is a good analogy. Indeed women are often as important as men, in the economic contribution to the household, but their role is staying in the background behind their men, supporting them.

Many Thai ladies are rebelling against this intolerable treatment by their unfaithful husbands. Many now in fact initiate divorce proceedings, accepting the hardship, and repercussions of their actions. Other young unmarried Thai ladies see this scenario all too often, and have no desire to follow this unsavoury route of marriage, followed by divorce. They are now looking to Western men to provide the stable monogamous relationship which they seek.

They consider that Western men possess important qualities, which are sadly lacking in many Thai men. That they are loving, caring , faithful, and will provide the long term security which they crave.

Question 14: Do these ladies want to leave Thailand to escape Poverty and hardship?

No, this is not their prime directive. Thailand has a robust economy, with a shortage of labour in certain fields of employment. In point of fact, the ladies on our books are more than happy to consider a good Western man who wants to live in Thailand with them.

We do not deal in economic migrants!

Question 15: Where do the ladies come from?

Our ladies come from most walks of life, and from all over Thailand.

They all live and work in Bangkok, as that is where all the work is to be found. They occasionally return to the country for public holidays.

Question 16: What kind of ladies are on your books?

Decent single gainfully employed marriage minded ladies, from all walks of life. We have many office workers, teachers, many university graduates, with good jobs. Also housekeepers, hairdressers etc

Question 17: What is an acceptable age difference?

This is up to each individual lady. However Thai ladies generally prefer a man who is a good few years older than her.

Most ladies like to meet a man face to face, (rather than stating categorically an age range), before making any hard and fast decisions.

Question 18: What happens when I arrive in Bangkok?

You are met at Bangkok International airport, by our office manager, and escorted back by complimentary taxi, to your chosen accommodation in Bangkok.

Question 19: What happens next?

If you wish, you can rest at your hotel to recover from your long flight. Alternatively, you can hit the ground running, and commence introductions the same day. Generally however, clients get themselves a good night’s rest, and begin their selection procedure the following morning, by which time they are fully rested and raring to go! Indeed, many clients often make provisional selections, prior to their arrival in Bangkok, and have a couple of dates pre-booked.

Question 20: How many ladies can I meet?

As many as you like! We will keep introducing you to ladies, until you say stop!

Question 21: Do you provide any introductions to Thai ladies living in the UK?

No.

Question 22: Why not?

Because any organisation dealing in this market, is invariably in fact usually dealing with less than genuine ladies with a chequered history, who have entered the UK on a wife or fiancée visa having met and "hooked" an unwitting man, usually in dubious circumstances, in a Thailand bar, hotel,or place of entertainment, chat line, etc., These are almost in variably,marriages of convenience. The ladies bide their time, wait until they have achieved their goal, of securing unlimited leave to remain in the country then dump him; disappear and look for a richer man!

This has NEVER occurred with any of the ladies on our books.

Question 23: Do you have any links to any other organisations working in this field?

Absolutely not. With us you deal direct. We have NO middlemen.

Question 24: What about other costs? Flights, accommodation etc.

All information can be found on our Thai marriage cost page, and our free colour brochure.

Question 25: Can you help with these arrangements?

As stated above, Yes we can! We are in fact also registered as travel agents. We do NOT deal with the general public however, we are only registered as travel agents so that we can provide a better level of service to our clients using our service. We can also help you make big savings on hotel accommodation, pleasure trips, etc. See cost of Thai lady marriage page.

Question 26: Can I visit your Bangkok office to "take a look" before deciding whether I wish to use your service or not?

We do NOT accept casual callers at our Bangkok office.

There are certainly no sinister or underhand reasons for this approach. The simple fact is, that every lady, and every Western man visiting our office, has a committed intent to finding a life partner. We are ALWAYS very busy in our office with clients using our full service, and the arrival of occasional casual visitors, would, we KNOW be the "thin edge of the wedge" of what, by future word of mouth would inevitably lead to a virtual "peep show" for Western casual visitors. This would cause severe embarrassment to the ladies on our books, and our Bangkok staff alike.

Please note. We are NOT a casual dating agency, and as such do not offer an occasional dating service. We cater exclusively for marriage minded gentlemen. Clients signing up, use our FULL service. Which is valid for 12 months.  This is done out of respect to the decent ladies on our books, who are only wishing to meet sincere gentlemen with honourable intentions.  As I am sure you are.

Question 27: Can I write to ladies before I visit your Bangkok office?

In theory, this is a great idea. However in practice it is not so. The reasons are quite simple.

Ladies take time off work to meet gentlemen using our service in our Bangkok office. In theory they would have to do the same to receive and send replies to interested men who are not in Bangkok.

It really is however, a case of " A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush"

As we have so many gentleman clients using our service, the ladies naturally wish to use their time off as productively as possible. They are not so keen therefore, to use this time to receive letters from gentleman who, in their minds, may never come to Bangkok at all, or at best, probably arrive after they have become engaged to another man!

We have been in business for several years now; and experience tells us that the ladies are looking to meet a potential partner "face to face" NOW, not at a later date.

These ladies are NOT looking for penpals.

POPULAR MISCONCEIVED SCENARIOS RE MEETING THAI LADIES.
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(a)" Attempting to meet a suitable decent Thai lady in a social situation, who
is not meeting men every week as part of her living, and about whom it is
possible to discover a reliable verifiable history "

Answer: It is virtually impossible; to meet a decent single marriage- minded
Thai lady in a social situation in Thailand, as these ladies would not be
available to meet.
Yes; there are hundreds of Thai ladies to be met in social situations in
Thailand, however always remember, that when you go home, they have to earn
their keep, from somebody else!! To meet a decent lady, you need to use a
reputable agency, like Thai Professional, which has investigated the background
and social status of the lady.

(b)"Attempting to find a lady that will stay faithful to you in your absence?".

Answer: Once "engaged" to a lady who is on the books of a reputable agency like
Thai Professional, that lady is immediately removed from the books. She will
faithfully wait for you until her visa to come to your country has been
secured.

(c)"Attempting to keep the relationship alive from several thousand miles away,
without help and assistance in communication, cultural differences, customs and
language"

Answer: A reputable agency is there for you and your lady EVERY step of the
way, to prevent the relationship falling apart for any of the given reasons.

(d)"Attempting to secure assistance with all aspects of visa and cultural
preparation, for the lady's entry to her new country of residence"

Answer: You need to use a reputable registered marriage agency, which has
successfully prepared and secured hundreds of visas, for Thai ladies to enter
Western countries World wide.

Question 29: What makes your company and its service stand out from the crowd?

Established in 1997 by Lawrence & Thapanee Lynch, Thai Professional Introductions ALWAYS live up to their hard earned and well deserved reputation; of providing the most professional ethical sensitive caring service that has EVER been available to sincere Western men. We are "straight talkers" providing a genuine straight transparent service. Please view the 93 minute TV interview with Lawrence Lynch, (see Google video below) where he covers ALL aspects of the service, and lays to rest the numerous misconceptions and negative thoughts which are inevitably harboured in the minds of certain cynical segments of society; and you will see for yourself!

"STICKMAN" INTERVIEW!  CLICK HERE


Please note: Our service fee for clients Worldwide is 1950 UK Pounds in total;  NOT the sum stated on the film.

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